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There’s a Fall chill in the air! Yea, and football is all over TV screens. Maybe a good time to spread some warm thoughts from the ‘Motherland’. In this issue you’ll know more about the Salami (Sa-la-mee) family from Togo Africa. Some family members live in other countries in Africa and Europe. So, they get around.
See our Celebrity Row column about ‘duds or gems’ in life. There’s also the Lead Story on African food and maybe some of you might even think about that Bob Marley song, ‘Africa Unite.’ We round out this issue with more Good Stuff and of course our Line Jams. You can visit the About page to learn more on how this portal came to be.
As a moment of homage, we remember the life of Dikembe Mutombo, whether on the basketball court or Global Ambassador for the NBA. He made folks from his native Democratic Republic of the Congo and across Africa stand tall through his game skills and humanitarian work.
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Celebrity Row: Here for the Culture
Well, another anniversary just went by, but who’s counting? It’s been 14 years this past September since Steve Harvey started hosting the Family Feud. The show saw a big reboot and bounce from that time in viewers and players. There’s even a celebrity version of the show that’s a big hit with stars in pop culture.
Those who watch the show know that it’s a friendly-fun competition between two families or groups. The questions are based on survey data with the top answers listed on the board. Sometimes players answer with a dud, which gets the buzzer. Other times players answer with a gem that gets the bell. After three buzzer strikes, the opposing team has a chance to steal.
Something else happens behind the scenes. As the crew sets up for taping, Harvey will share some gems from his life’s journey under the caption of “Motivated”. In one case, he shared how he approached his dream, even when others close to him didn’t see what was possible. In the ‘before and after’ pics below you see how far he’s come. There’s even Family Feud Africa, airing in Ghana and South Africa.
Nowadays Harvey’s all over as he dreamed it, and living his best life as folks watched it. How he has handled the doubters and haters is in the gem he shared that “God put the dream in his imagination, not in theirs.” In other words, we show up with our own dreams. While we can’t live out someone else’s dream, we can appreciate and be motivated by their story.
Lead Story: “The Motherland’s Got Something Good”
Travel back in time, and we learn that Africa is one of the oldest regions of civilization. Sometimes the sights and sounds in certain TV ads don’t quite do justice to the full scope of the continent. You might be left with the impression that things are poor or painful everywhere. Folks from the African diaspora wanna change that image.
For example, the NFL is spreading its wings across the Atlantic into Ghana, with football camps and related events. Closer to home, there’s the Delaware African and Caribbean Affairs Commission, chaired by Dr. Kelechi Lawrence Ph.D., MBA, that’s focused on making sure folks know “The Motherland’s got something good.”
Their recent annual Summit welcomed the ‘Queen’ of Jollof rice from Senegal. It’s like that dish in different cultures that moves around the table like a baton moves around a track relay. The dish, which has its roots in the Senegal/Gambia region of Africa, is a mix of spices, herbs and vegetables. It can be a one-course meal. Here’s Burna Boy having his share of jollof rice https://youtube.com/shorts/n2cXv-YPGvg?si=0_hcE1LLKlYNw5eG.
The Summit also had empowering speakers and cultural programs. Our Family Line member Devon Mitchell (center) was on hand to present a Proclamation to Rohan K. Hepkins, Mayor for the Borough of Yeadon in PA. Mayor Hepkins (right) is of Jamaican roots from Montego Bay. They were joined for the ceremony by Dr. Lawrence who is of Nigerian roots. Devon even had the chance to huddle with the ‘Jollof Queen’ at the festivities. Learn more about the organization and the Summit at https://afrocarib.delaware.gov/.
Family Feature: “Daughters & Sons Day”
These days it seems like every day has a certain social/cultural designation. As we speak, we’re in Hispanic Heritage Month. Also, in case you missed it recently, over the space of a few days we went from National Daughters Day to then boasting about National Sons Day.
National Daughters Day got started in India to celebrate the bond between parents and daughters. In some cultures, daughters get less attention and opportunities than sons. It was more recently adopted in the U.S. around early 2000s. National Sons Day is celebrated twice a year, March and September to encourage more than just ‘birds and the bees’ conversations with sons. Checkout Gerry and son Jeremy, as well as a throwback pic of the Dupoux boys.
Over those days, it felt like a kinda ‘Daughters & Sons’ double feature. Mothers got a kick out of spotlighting their ‘generational kin’ image. When there were multiple daughters, you got the sense that one looked more like the father and another more like the mother. And fathers were filled with pride to have ‘junior’ at their side.
Above are my dear wife Donnice, and our daughters Dominique and Deja. Below, we’ve got Rev. Dr. Catina Blackmon Jackson as big sister to Rev. Charita Blackmon Ely and Psalmist Christie Jon Blackmon. She also appears with daughters Chloe Alexander, Jasmine Monique and Tiana Joy.
Turn Up Tips: Notes on Trusting the Process
“Pain is weakness trying to leave the body towards healing, or fighting to stay in the body towards hurt.”
“Test yourself against your own actions. This way you can take pride in yourself without having to compare yourself to others.” – Galatians 6:4 NIV
Good Stuff: “Homebase Enterprise”
Did you know that Microsoft was started by Bill Gates in a garage? More often than we realize, many ventures get launched as a ‘homebase enterprise’. That’s something the Salami family knows quite well. The idea for their Dream Africa project might have started with sister Yasmine, but others in the fam also had a hand on the wheel.
Their approach to working together is a classic example of the idea that ‘1 + 1 = 11’. From watching them in action, you get the sense that one brother might help with marketing, a sister with cooking, and along the way there’s help from those who bring nursing or planning or branding or performing expertise.
With the Salami family there’re three brothers, four sisters and their mother ‘Mamimi’ as the core team. While some live outside of Togo, they pull-together and pull strings to make it happen. Then add in grandchildren, girlfriends/boyfriends, spouses and friends, you see how you’ve got a “program by day, party by night”. For more, visit https://dreamafrica.africa/.
Other Mentions: Added Touch Like Gravy
If you’ve been to or thinking about going to Africa, here’s an on-the-ground clip of ‘Jamaicans in Ghana’ https://www.facebook.com/share/v/yKXByw3FPjiRpzr6/?mibextid=oFDknk.
Who else got Africa on their radar? Maybe Sydni can ‘school’ us on the lessons and life experience she gained from her trip to Sierra Leone. As a JD candidate at Columbia Law School, she travelled with peers from the Black Law School Association. They toured memorable sites and met with government officials.
Meanwhile, on the west coast, her younger brother Cole has been doing big things in sports. He’s got his indoor sport on the ice and his outdoor sport on the field (that’s just for starters). His parents are open to diversity in ice hockey as he’s scoring goals in the net and landing touchdowns in flag football. Checkout his latest score at the link below. Wonder where he got all this game?
https://www.instagram.com/p/DAO4Zb9ygts/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Smile Emoji
Wow, an ‘old soul’ in the building. (sent by Donnice) https://x.com/KevOnStage/status/1839474818024144916
Ever happened to you? (sent by Nadine) https://www.instagram.com/reel/C-x1SwagobV/?igsh=M3NiMWhoampnY255
Life & Times Flava (Chill Sauce for the Grind): “The Clock is Ticking”
Time flies when you’re having fun and when you’ve grown up! But does it seem like it takes forever when you’re trying to level-up? For women, there’s often this idea of having to choose between career and family. Should they work on building their mojo or building their mastery at home?
Well, those days are long gone. Women have just as much ‘game’ in their career track as men do in their passion field. Just watch the WNBA playoffs and you’ll see they come to play. The league got a big boost with the current rookie class that some say play like veterans.
But the league has also been challenged by a bump in incidents of hate and harassment. It’s as if some come for the joy of the sport and others come to jeer players who’re putting on a show. Then there’s the element of that rookie who’s gotten lots of attention from fans, some of whom want to dirty-up the sport.
Of course, sports can be a snapshot of life. That said, we’ve got a chance to see America level-up as the clock is ticking with the presidential campaign on the last round. So fellas, before time expires we gotta do our part as the women are watching. For now, checkout the digital bookmark and promo flyer below for how we roll to: (1) impact roots, culture, our better angels; (2) uplift country, family, our homies.
(For a deeper dive into the issues, checkout https://SeeAmericaInColor.com).
Line Jams
Maffio, Kymani Marley, Julian Marley, Ft Jo Mersa Marley – Blessings – https://youtu.be/8Sc5yOzrNDM?si=63aghHgu2mMJ4SKD
Burna Boy – Last Last – https://youtu.be/421w1j87fEM?si=dl_eK0eLzdIizId8
The Family Line Motto: “Open Door to Good Cheer.”
The Family Line 